Sep 152024
 

Sep 152024
 

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Sex Work

Gen West, When 3 Isn’t a Crowd

Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop’s Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love

Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better

Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires

Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker

Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM

Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories

Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 2

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug

Liz X, Clear Pleasure – Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise

Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights

barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective

O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage

Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship

Books and Movies

Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year

Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You

The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves

Sep 142024
 

The Libertine, also know as La Matriarca, is a 1968 film directed by Pasquale Festa Campanile and starring Catherine Spaak. IMDB

A wealthy man, Franco, suddenly dies and leaves everything to his young, beautiful wife, Margherita (aka Mimi). She finds that he had been seeing a string of mistresses, and sets out on a journey of sexual exploration.

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Aug 202024
 
Aug 202024
 

Tokyo Decadence is a 1992 Japanese drama film, directed by Ryu Murakami and starring Miho Nikaido. (All quotations are from the English subtitles.) Amazon

Ai (Japanese for “love”) is a 22-year-old professional submissive sex worker, adrift in 1990s Japan, lacking in direction.

Ai with client.

In the very first scene, Ai is tied up and naked. Her client tells her S&M is all about trust, but then blindfolds her despite her objections. He injects her with something, also apparently without her consent. (Drug use, both giving and receiving, is a recurring motif.)

In Ai’s scenes with her clients, she is awkward and passive, as if she wandered into a stage play and doesn’t know or understand the script. Clients impress their own ideas and archetypes upon her, more like a prop in their visions. Ai’s blank-ness may actually be an asset in her line of work, having little sense of self to interfere with her client’s fantasies.

The yakuza client has Ai pose in front of the skyscraper window.

The second client Ai sees, implicitly a Yakuza gangster, asks her about herself. She says:

Ai: I’ve discovered that I have no talent whatsoever.

After a scene with the gangster and his girlfriend, Ai pulls the bondage gear off and vigorously brushes her teeth. On her way out, the gangster overpays her and says to her:

Gangster: Don’t think you’ve no talent. That’s a cop-out.

Another client wants to be strangled by Ai and another escort while receiving oral. The two women think they accidentally killed him, and are astonished when he suddenly comes back to life.

Yet another client, who initially is friendly enough, proves to be a necrophile who wants to re-enact a specific rape and murder with Ai. When he tries to strangle her, Ai finally resists. He lets her go, but demands his money back. This puts Ai on thin ice with her manager.

Ai and Saki

On a threesome assignment, Ai meets Saki, a pro-dominatrix who deftly commands their masochistic male client (and Ai too). Saki shows the kind of confidence and control Ai lacks. Saki takes Ai to her lavish home, where they hang out. Saki proves to be a serious cocaine user (she snorts, injects and smokes it).

Ai: You must be wealthy.

Saki: Not really. It’s Japan that’s wealthy. But it’s wealth without pride. It creates anxiety, which drives our men into masochism. I’ve made my living out of these men.

Saki gives Ai an unspecified drug that will allegedly give her courage. After her night with Saki, Ai goes on a journey to find her former lover who married another woman, though it’s implied he actually died.

In a post-credit scene, Ai appears on stage, dressed in a Saki-like outfit. She signs something in sign language, then dances in a far more confident way.

Ai at her manager’s office.

I wouldn’t call Ai masochistic. She doesn’t embrace her experiences, but instead seems detached, even confused. It’s different from Lucy in Sleeping Beauty (2011); Ai seems like a person who has lost her way, and looks to others for direction. She watches Saki dominating the client like a person attending a university lecture that they just don’t understand.

BDSM in Tokyo Decadence is not a means to connection or intimacy. It’s a symptom of a dysfunctional society, of men (mostly) who have too much money for their own good, paralleled by the drug use (mostly cocaine and other stimulants) and the gourmet meals. Human connection is what’s missing, and what Ai searches for.

Aug 132024
 

In the Realm of the Senses (aka Ai no Corrida, “Bullfight of Love”) is a 1976 Japanese-French film directed by Nagisa Oshima and starring Eiko Matsuda and Tatsuya Fuji. Amazon

The film is a fictionalized version of the true story of Sada Abe, who in 1936 Japan was arrested for the murder of her lover. She was found carrying his severed penis and testicles in her kimono. The film makes this a story of doomed lovers in a hostile world.

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Jul 232024
 

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Sex Shed, How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps

Blogging

Ramone Quides, Destroyer of Good Erotica!

LA Jayne, Against the Discourse

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J, The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent

Beyond Non-Binary, What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise

Betty’s Toy Box, Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples

Sydney Screams, Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review

Princess Preview, Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo

State of the World

Witch of the Wands, Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go

Interviews

Unicorn Hunting Blog, Zara Du Rose interview: ZDR events and how to become a celebrity on the UK party scene

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Buzzing Babe, Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure

Sex Toy DB, 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind Blowing Fucking Machine

Stan’s Swingers, Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play

barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon

Body Talk

Hannah McKnight, Behold, the Power of Forms

Peach Kisser, How to Feel Sexier – 5 Perspectives for a Body Positive Mindset

Sex Work

Sex worker Search, Best Business Practices For Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA

Oz Bigdownunder, Just a Cock in a Cage

Sandra, Summertime Gangbang

Hellga, Malasana Pose Anal Action

The Siren Domme, Review: The Nest’ By Loonerfun

Jul 232024