The History of BDSM

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Books and Movies

O Miss Pearl, “The Everlasting” by Alix E. Harrow [Femdom Book Review]

History of BDSM, Killing Me Softly (2002): The Celluloid Dungeon

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

The BDSM Store, BDSM Punishment Generator

Hannah McKnight, I Want to be a Crossdresser

Sex & Relationships

Morgan Destera, And I Scream at the Top of My Lungs “What’s Going On?”

Tantric Sexual Healing, Erotic Intelligence: Can Sexual Practice Increase Wisdom?

Femina Viva, Are we all alone? Is life just one big futile exercise for connection?

Product Reviews

Buzz Vibes, Best Masturbators Australia (2026): Our Top Picks for Every Budget

Safe Lust, b-Vibe Rocker Prostate Plug Tested: Rocking the Spot

Liz X, Heavy-Duty Automation: A Review of the Honey Play Box Warrior Masturbator

Girly Juice, Velora Dune banana-shaped vibrator

Oz Bigdownunder, Orgasm Monster Pro 2 Review

Sex Work

Hellga, Fisty Cuffs

Charlotte Cheshire, Luxury Companionship for Every Body: Finding a Disability-Friendly Independent Escort

Mx Valentina, Bespoke Encounters

Ur Little Secret, PSE Meaning: What Is the Porn Star Experience with an Escort?

Sex Worker Search, Fairphone Sex Work Phone Update

Sandra, In Flight Entertainment

Teena Laurent, On Companionship Without Condition

Milady, What’s in My Kinky Tote Bag?

Mila Dall, Music, neuroscience and the link between sexuality and creativity

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

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Erotic Fiction

Sugarbutch, Supine: A Jealousy Play Erotica Story

Jessica Lansdown, Peeping Tom

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Morgan Destera, Transfer Post – How Do I Feel?

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

ThatGrrl, A Dominant Woman is Not a Fetish

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Fruity Cams, How to jerk off longer

State of the World

Fapspins, Are Webcam Sites Safe? Privacy, Tracking & Security Explained

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Temporality and the Ecology of Desire: How Ritual Transforms Time, Pleasure, and Attentional Economy

Product Reviews

Oz Bigdownunder, I’ll Let You Lick My Lollypop. Funzze Candy Cane Vibrator

Liz X, Tabletop Review: The simplyjoy 10-Inch Dual Density Dildo

Spices of Lust, VVD Rider Desire Review

Sex Work

Evie + Axel, Anxiety around sexual performance

Mistress Sophie, How Best To Approach A Pro-Domme, (Some Helpful Do’s And Don’t’s)

Sex Worker Search, Clients. Are you more like A? Or B?

Sandra, “Will abuse u and leave marks but make sure u enjoy!”

Mx Valentina, Maid Fantasy. With a Twist.

Vivienne Parker, Swingers Club

Milady, Rendezvous in Paris with a Butt Plug

Hellga, Bunkhaus Dungeon Femdom Session

Books and Movies

O Miss Pearl, “What Fury Brings” by Tricia Levenseller [Femdom Book Review]

The History of BDSM, Box Hill (2020) by Adam Mars-Jones

Welcome to Elust 193

Cover image courtesy of Circe.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

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Erotic Non Fiction

Morgan Destera, A Little Sex

Femina Viva, Love, submission, and are these my demons?

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra against optimisation and the refusal of efficiency

Kristina J, He Thought He Was Leading, Intimacy, Control & Desire with Kristina J

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Tantric Massage and Sexual Energy: Releasing Performance and Feeling Alive

Tantric Connections, Why Your Fears could be Guarding Your Pleasure

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Chastity Cages, How to Introduce Chastity to Your Partner (Without the Awkwardness)

Mx Valentina, This is Not Kink: How Feminine Authority Rewires the Nervous System

Denying Thumper, 2025 by the numbers

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Club, Margot hosts (Part 2)

Simone Francis, The Artists’ Model

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Ur Little Secret Privacy Policies

Adam Black, Why become a kinky high-end male escort?

Oz Bigdownunder, Nightclub Upskirting Perv Gets His Comeuppance

Hellga, Ball Busting

Sandra, Double Penetration with a Man and a Dragon

Product Reviews

Lushense, Original & Innovative Pleasure Toys Unveiled Part 2

Books and Movies

Liz Black X, Need a Vacation – Surrender to the Bliss Liner – The Complete Paradise Punch Trilogy is Live

The History of BDSM, CSI S11E14 “Sqweegel”: The Celluloid Dungeon

Welcome to Elust 191

Cover image courtesy of Valora Saint.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

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Thank you Jerusalem Mortimer, History of BDSM, Hellga and SWS for re-posting Elust 190. Re-posted on my blog too.

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Sex News

The Sex Shed, The Sex Shed is looking for brand ambassadors & reviewers!

Erotic Non-Fiction

Morgan Destera, What Can I Say…

Tantric Connections, The Longing Beneath Success: Remembering How To Feel

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Embodiment and the Alchemy of Power: Transforming Desire into Collective Awakening

Kristina J, Let’s Talk About Touch (and Why Communication Is The Sexiest Thing You Can Do)

Awakening Your Inner Essence, The Secret to Lasting Longer Isn’t Control — It’s Connection

Erotic Fiction

B.R.Saiph, Locktober Reward

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 17

Jasmine Gold, Opening chapters of Mindgames, a dark dystopian novel about naked sex slaves

Fern River Club, After the Come-In (Part 1)

Product Reviews

Spices of Lust, Womanizer Peach Review

Oz Bigdownunder, Nothosaur Avoyo – Centaur Horse Ejaculating Dildo – Review

Sex Work

Sex worker Search, A Guide to Selfie Photo-Shoots For Sex Workers

Lita Mackenzie, An Imperfect Quick Guide to Finding – and Verifying- a Companion

Ulla Burns, No Safeword for the Soul -Maternal Domination without a script

Sierra Skyy, Feminism and Sex Work; Have We Lost the Plot?

Elizabeth of London, A naughty Nurse

Hellga, Sit On My Face and Tell Me That You Love Me

Book and Movies

Liz Black, Two New Bimbo Releases Are Here – Two Series Completed

History of BDSM, Nine and a Half Weeks (1978)

Welcome to Elust 188

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Erotic Non-Fiction

Morgan Destera, After 10 Months

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Alchemy of Touch: Re-Sacralising Sensuality in a Desensitised World through Tantric Praxis

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei: Prologue – 14

Schey Place Books, Interview with the Eroticist

Phoebe Pearl, Teased Desires: A Sissy Cuckold Short Story

B.R.Saiph, Packing For Splash Mocha: A Cuck’s Viewpoint

Sinclair Sexsmith, Did I Say You Could Touch Me?

Liz X, Sip of Shimmering Shadows – Warlock’s Enchanted Desire – Bimbofication Erotica

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Dayna McAlpine, A UK Boomer, Gen X, Millenial and Gen Z Man On Sex In 2025

Riz Ward, Top 20 Couch Sex Positions To Spice Up Your Sex Life 

Pleasure Me Now, Wear It, Lick It, Taste It: Delectable Flavors of Edible Underwear

Product Reviews

Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Strap-On Review

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Tryst AMA Ask Me Anything Interview on Reddit

Ulla Burns, The Psychology of the Lost Boy: Why Some Men Need the Mommie Domme to Feel Whole Again

Noa Aliya, How to Treat Noa with Respect and Class

Elvee Payne, Airport Shanan

Sandra, Foot Fetish. Lick Between My Toes

Hellga, Russian Cock. Я обожаю захлёбываться русским хером

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, The Marburger list: BDSM in film and television, pre-1975

State of the World

Girl on the Net, Age verification: what’s the harm?

Sex News

Auntie Vice, Top Ethical Sex-Toy Shops