Dec 282025
 

Welcome to Elust 192

Cover image courtesy of Goddess Severa.

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Erotic Fiction

Simone Francis, The Model

Erotic Non Fiction

Tantric Connections, Beyond Porn Scripts: Discovering Your Real Erotic Nature Through Tantra

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Rewriting Your Sexual Story: How Tantra Helps You Claim Your Own Desire

Kristina J, Your Erotic Mind Is Talking… Are You Listening?

B R Saiph, Taking the Train: A Chaste Cuck’s Journey from Hope to Exquisite Surrender

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Temporal Fabric of Desire: How Linear Time Erodes Eros and How Tantric Cyclicality Reconfigures the Erotic Body

Buzz Vibes, 5 Expert-Approved Ways to Make Your Partner Beg for More in Bed

The Sex Shed, 6 Christmas Sex Positions Santa Definitely Didn’t Approve Of

Morgan Destera, The Beginning

Femina Viva, Sometimes how we cope with trauma is worse than the trauma itself

Product Reviews

barefoot sub, Guest Review: Funzze Thrusting Prostate Massager

Sex Toy DB, Tantaly Aurora 2.0 Review: The Anime Fantasy You’ll Need a Gym Membership For

Sex Work

Oz Bigdownunder, Interview With Ethical Porn

The Siren Domme, Like I belong

Fox Digital, The Biggest Mistake I See Escorts Make On Twitter

Sierra Skyy, November Newsletter

Sex Worker Search, Is it Possible to Combine a Sex Work Phone with a Personal Phone?

Hellga, 2025 Roundup. Face-Sitting, Craic, She-cock and Dungeons

Sandra, 2025 Roundup. Hotels, Rope, Feet, and Four Hands

Creators Spicy Tea, Comprehensive Comparison of Adult Content Platforms

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, CSI S05E05 “Swap Meet”: The Celluloid Dungeon

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Mx Valentina, How my training as a somatic therapist finds expression in kink

State of the World

Frank Noir, Remembering a legend: Jeanna Fine (1964-2025)

Nov 172025
 

Welcome to Elust 191

Cover image courtesy of Valora Saint.

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Thank you Jerusalem Mortimer, History of BDSM, Hellga and SWS for re-posting Elust 190. Re-posted on my blog too.

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Sex News

The Sex Shed, The Sex Shed is looking for brand ambassadors & reviewers!

Erotic Non-Fiction

Morgan Destera, What Can I Say…

Tantric Connections, The Longing Beneath Success: Remembering How To Feel

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Embodiment and the Alchemy of Power: Transforming Desire into Collective Awakening

Kristina J, Let’s Talk About Touch (and Why Communication Is The Sexiest Thing You Can Do)

Awakening Your Inner Essence, The Secret to Lasting Longer Isn’t Control — It’s Connection

Erotic Fiction

B.R.Saiph, Locktober Reward

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 17

Jasmine Gold, Opening chapters of Mindgames, a dark dystopian novel about naked sex slaves

Fern River Club, After the Come-In (Part 1)

Product Reviews

Spices of Lust, Womanizer Peach Review

Oz Bigdownunder, Nothosaur Avoyo – Centaur Horse Ejaculating Dildo – Review

Sex Work

Sex worker Search, A Guide to Selfie Photo-Shoots For Sex Workers

Lita Mackenzie, An Imperfect Quick Guide to Finding – and Verifying- a Companion

Ulla Burns, No Safeword for the Soul -Maternal Domination without a script

Sierra Skyy, Feminism and Sex Work; Have We Lost the Plot?

Elizabeth of London, A naughty Nurse

Hellga, Sit On My Face and Tell Me That You Love Me

Book and Movies

Liz Black, Two New Bimbo Releases Are Here – Two Series Completed

History of BDSM, Nine and a Half Weeks (1978)

Oct 172025
 

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Sex & Relationships

Morgan Destera, Ten Years!

Sex Toy DB, So You’ve Bought a Sex Machine … Now What?

Lushense, How To Choose The Best Lubricant For Your Intimate Moments

Betty’s Toy Box, The Smart Guide to Penis Extensions for Couples

Kink & Fetish

Mx Valentina, A Man isn’t Whole without a Woman to Serve

Erotica

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 16

Sugarbutch, You’ll Take Whatever I Can Dish Out

Liz Black X, Lumiis Glow – Sasha’s Bimbo Bliss Fiction

Non Fiction

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Erotic Body as Cosmic Mirror: Tantric Rituals of Union and the Politics of Liberation

Hannah McKnight, He’s Wearing a Skirt…

Sex Work

Elizabeth of London, Athens

Fox Digital, How to Attract Wealthy Clients in an Oversaturated Market

The Siren Domme, Five Archetypes of a Dom/me (and Why You Don’t Have to Pick Just One)

Sex Worker Search, Payment Portal Pre-Release Invite

Hellga, Conor’s Craic. My Upcoming Tour of Dublin, Ireland

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Pillion (2025): The Celluloid Dungeon

Writing About Writing

Oxy Shop, Femdom Fiction: How Erotic Stories Spark Real-Life Submission

Ambyr Leigh, On Writing Anal Sex Scenes

Product Reviews

Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Three Bead Stainless Steel Butt Plug Review

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Femina Viva, Is Learning How to Receive My Waterloo?

Aug 172025
 

Welcome to Elust 188

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Oz

Erotic Non-Fiction

Morgan Destera, After 10 Months

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Alchemy of Touch: Re-Sacralising Sensuality in a Desensitised World through Tantric Praxis

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei: Prologue – 14

Schey Place Books, Interview with the Eroticist

Phoebe Pearl, Teased Desires: A Sissy Cuckold Short Story

B.R.Saiph, Packing For Splash Mocha: A Cuck’s Viewpoint

Sinclair Sexsmith, Did I Say You Could Touch Me?

Liz X, Sip of Shimmering Shadows – Warlock’s Enchanted Desire – Bimbofication Erotica

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Dayna McAlpine, A UK Boomer, Gen X, Millenial and Gen Z Man On Sex In 2025

Riz Ward, Top 20 Couch Sex Positions To Spice Up Your Sex Life 

Pleasure Me Now, Wear It, Lick It, Taste It: Delectable Flavors of Edible Underwear

Product Reviews

Oz Bigdownunder, Funzze Strap-On Review

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Tryst AMA Ask Me Anything Interview on Reddit

Ulla Burns, The Psychology of the Lost Boy: Why Some Men Need the Mommie Domme to Feel Whole Again

Noa Aliya, How to Treat Noa with Respect and Class

Elvee Payne, Airport Shanan

Sandra, Foot Fetish. Lick Between My Toes

Hellga, Russian Cock. Я обожаю захлёбываться русским хером

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, The Marburger list: BDSM in film and television, pre-1975

State of the World

Girl on the Net, Age verification: what’s the harm?

Sex News

Auntie Vice, Top Ethical Sex-Toy Shops

May 152025
 

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

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Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Sohimi Viele 3 Flapping Licking Vibrator

Sydney Screams, Everything You Need to Know About Sex Grinders

Tantric Sexual Healing, Erotic Alchemy in the Age of Disconnection: Tantric Pathways to Re-Enchanting Intimacy and Desire

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Buzzvibes, The Evolution of Intimacy: How Modern Relationships Are Redefining Sexual Connection

Betty’s Toy Box, How to Use a Butt Plug: The Basics from Betty’s Toy Box

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Liz X, My Nomi AI Girlfriend Lily – A Tale of Trust and Digital Intimacy

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 11

Spices of Lust, The Archivist’s Secrets: The Hidden Map (Part 1)

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Crime and Policing Bill UK Proposed Amendments Relating to Sex Work

Fox Digital, WordPress, Squarespace, Wix. Which Platform Is Best For Your Escort Website?

Elizabeth of London, MMF & FFM

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Not a Love Story (1981): The Celluloid Dungeon

Frank Noir, Favourite porn #9: Paul Thomas

State of the World

Femina Viva, What do we do with fake allies or do they just not know any better?

Erotic Non-Fiction

Kristina J, Reflecting on My Sexual Conditioning: Unraveling the Messages I Grew Up With

Mx Valentina, Simple is beautiful: the joys of a barehanded spanking

Writing About Writing

Ramone Quides, Framing For a Better 2025

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

The Sex Shed, How to use a riding crop? Scenarios and how to (techniques)

Apr 182025
 

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

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Thank you to Valentina for the repost and also Tantric Sexual Healing, Miss Ruby Reviews, Ambyr Leigh, Jerusalem Mortimer, Morgan Destera, Sex Worker Search, and Femina Viva. That’s 9 reposts in total last month including mine. 9 is pretty good! The more people do the reposts, the greater the value Elust has for everyone with a link included in terms of site visitors it generates and for SEO from all the new backlinks you get.

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Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Everyday Ecstasy: Bringing Tantra into Your Daily Routine

Erotic Fiction

Simone Francis, Painted Stripes

Schey Place Books, Zero

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 10

Jasmine Gold, Learning to Obey: Her Fantasy Denial

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, Funzze 3-in-1 Sucking Flapping Vibrator

Man at Jerk, Fantasy Grove Amanita dildo review

Sydney Screams, Uncover Creations Equiknot Dildo Review

Miss Ruby Reviews, We-Vibe Wand 2

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Kim Rub, Ectomorph Latex Design 40 Year Anniversary

Sex Work

Kristina J, Thank You Sex Work 

Fox Digital, Your Opinion of Your Website Doesn’t Matter—Here’s What Does

Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Resources (mostly U.S.)

Hellga, A Duo with Christine Love at Blue Door Dungeon

Sandra, Bound, Gagged and Throat-Fucked

Oz Bigdownunder, Sweet Cherry Pie. Custom Made Video Clips

State of the World

The Sex Shed, We asked 1000 people: How do you do it? (survey on masturbation habits)

Femina Viva, Is it time to start outing trans people?

Blogging

Liz X, Diving into Digital Desire – Exploring Nomi AI and its AI Companions

Ramone Quides, Surviving Two Changes of Seasons

Erotic Non Fiction

barefoot sub, Chase The Rainbow – Beautiful Marks

Mx Valentina, The Tantric connection to chastity and orgasm denial

Writing about writing

Ambyr Leigh, On Writing Anal Sex Scenes

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, The Idiots (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon

Jan 172025
 

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

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Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Come-In (Part 2)

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 5

Peach Kisser, Mid-Flight Hospitality

Simone Francis, Fetish Secretary

Ambyr Leigh, My Terrible Date Fucked Me Bareback In The Backseat Of His Car

Schey Place Books, The Story So Far

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Natalie Hepburn, Surviving a Dead Bedroom

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Erotism and the Transcendence of the Ego

Blogging

Miss Ruby Reviews, A Decade in the Sex Toy Industry

Erotic Non Fiction

Modesty Ablaze, Modest 50 Sexy Questions – 6 to 10

Awakening Your Inner Essence, The alchemy of surrender and activation

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Twisted Beast Marchosias

Oh Joy Sex Toy, The Uberrime Fantasy by Hien Pham

Sydney Screams, FemmeFunn Klio Vibrator Review

Liz X, Beyond Ordinary Stimulation – Kiiroo ProWand with App Streaming

Lushense, Introducing the Viballdo – The World’s 1st Vibrating Ball Dildo

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Cara Sutra, How A Woman Gets Pleasure From Pegging Men & Strap-On Sex

Sex Work

Lady Ava Sheridon, The Application Process; and why yours might be unsuccessful

Kristina J, Authenticity and Connection: The Art of Being Real in Sex Work

Princess Kaz, Dommes – Carving Out You-Time

Miss Kim Rub, Leather Fetishist Domme

Sex Worker Search, Are Sex Workers Welcome on Bluesky?

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humour

History of BDSM, “People Who Like Kinky Sex Are Just Bad In Bed”: Evie Magazine and the Raw Milkmaid Dress

Dec 162024
 

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice, or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.

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Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Tantric Sexual Healing, The Intersection of Sacred Sex and Kink in Tantric Philosophy

Modesty Ablaze, 50 Sexy Questions – 1 to 5

Sex Toy DB, Is Squirting The Same as Peeing?

Cara Sutra, Guide To Prostate Milking & The Health Benefits Of P-Spot Stimulation

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Luc sits for Asami (Part 1)

Schey Place Books,Erotica with Substance

Simone Francis, Bondage Violation

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 5

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Ramone Quides, Time to Celebrate the Holiday Season

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Twisted Beast “The Serpent”

Liz X, Leten Insulated Cabin Telescopic Heating Male Masturbator Review

Miss Ruby Reviews, Womanizer Vibe

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J, The Power Manifesto: How I Own My Life as a Sex Worker

Awakening Your Inner Essence, The Alchemy of Surrender and Activation

Femina Viva, Tripping the life fantastic: real life is wilder than any book I’ve ever read

barefoot sub, Belated Birthday Beatings

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Interview with Cory Doctorow. Disenshittification of the Internet for Sex Workers

Oz Bigdownunder, A Duo with Queen Kali Rain, Makiyo and Cherry

Hellga, An Offering to Aphrodite. A Duo with Maîtresse Nuit and Oz

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Sanctuary (2022): The Celluloid Dungeon

Nov 152024
 

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Virtual Vibrations: Bringing LDR Bliss With Blowjob Machines

Tantric Sexual Healing, Awakening Intimacy: A Tantric Journey to Sacred Sensuality

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Luc listens in

Lexi Rose, The Message: A Short Erotic Story – Part 1

Modesty Ablaze, “A Naughty Surprise” Part 4 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams, The Bivius Alien Dildo by Uberrime

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Black Fantasy Dildo

Liz X, Kiiroo Pearl 3 Vibrator Review: Remote Play & Video Sync Make It Unstoppable

Sex Toy DB, The Top 5 Squirting Dildos in 2024 to Simulate Ejaculation

Of Sex and Love, Heidi

Erotic Non Fiction

Awakening Your Inner Essence, A Tantric Perspective on Reclaiming Our Inner Worth

Kristina J, Humiliation To Liberation: A Dance Of Desire – 10 Years Of Submission

barefoot sub, Dancing In The Dark

Femina Viva, Managing the “feels” when visiting a companion

Sex Work

Carman Fox, Master Escort Communication

Thornhill Digital, The Future of Labour Rights Within Online Sex Work

Elizabeth, Torture Goddess

Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Blogs via RSS Feed

Oz Bigdownunder, Oz in Dubai. Australian Halal Sausage is Back on the Menu

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, The People’s Porn: A History of Handmade Pornography in America, by Lisa Z. Sigel

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides, When One Door Closes, Meditation Begins

Sep 152024
 

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

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Sex Work

Gen West, When 3 Isn’t a Crowd

Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop’s Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love

Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better

Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires

Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker

Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM

Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories

Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 2

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug

Liz X, Clear Pleasure – Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise

Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights

barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective

O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage

Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship

Books and Movies

Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year

Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You

The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves