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Product Reviews
Lushense, Penis Extenders: The Complete Guide to Types, Benefits and the Best Brands in 2026
Liz Black X, Is This The Ultimate Heavy Duty Sleeve? QUTOYS Hole-y Cow Masturbator Review
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Carrie Young, Spanking 101: A Beginner’s Guide to Spanking & Impact Play
Sex Toy DB, QUTOYS Dongkinger Replica Dildo Review: That’s a Lot of Dong
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Morgan Destera, Sex Toys – Anal Beads
Femina Viva, Musings on Life, Work, Hypocrisy and the Toxic Sisterhood
Books and Movies
The History of BDSM, Le jeu avec le feu (Playing with Fire)(1975): The Celluloid Dungeon
Sex Work
Hellga, Fingerbang
Sandra, My New PortaLite Massage Table
Sex Worker Search, Courtesan Finder Interview
Mx Valentina, The dominatrix as life coach
Milady, Atsuko Kudo Latex Catsuit
Teena Laurent, Six Hours with a Nerd
Yufi Saurus, Staying true to yourself even when you are a total weirdo
Lyra Bergman, What does “independent escort” mean? And why book independent escorts?
Sierra Sorren, The Lost Art of Lingering
Valerie Valtesse, On limerence & limoncello
Oz Bigdownunder, A Duo with Mistress Jessica and Mr and Mrs Habibi
Erotic Fiction
Simone Francis, Total Submission to the Riding Crop
Erotic Non Fiction
Raffaello Palandri, The Erotic Threshold: Tantra, Sapiosexuality, and the Intelligence of Almost
I’ll be speaking on the History of BDSM, and selling books, in London, Paris and Berlin in the coming weeks.
September 16: London, UK
7pm-10pm
Presented by Anatomie Studio London
SE15 2JR, Southwark, Greater London, United Kingdom
September 25: Paris, France
6:30pm – 8:30pm
Presented by Vous Monsieur
18 Rue du Vertbois, 3rd arrondissement of Paris, Paris, France
October 1: Berlin, Germany
7:30pm – 9:30pm
Presented by IKSK
25 Holzmarktstraße, Berlin, Germany
- From Archive.org

Le jeu avec le feu (Playing with Fire) is a 1975 French comedy-drama, directed by Alain Robbe-Grillet.
A group of men are kidnapping young women all over Paris and holding them for ransom. They send a ransom note to a wealthy man, “the banker”, before before they kidnap his daughter, Carolina, which persuades the banker to hire a private detective to protect her. This detective is secretly one of the kidnappers, so he talks the banker into letting him take his daughter into hiding in a specialized clinic, which is actually a brothel. So, they’ve managed to kidnap a woman without her or her father knowing she’s been kidnapped. That’s just the beginning of the plot twists.
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Cover image courtesy of Domina Gea. Photography by L. Thomas.
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Erotic Non Fiction
Morgan Destera, So I Went to a Swingers’ Club…
Femina Viva, Realising the futility and necessity of putting ourselves in boxes
Books and Movies
The History of BDSM, I Want Your Sex (2026): The Celluloid Dungeon
Hellga, Book Review of “Money for Something” by Mia Walsch
Poetry
The Author Stew, Your Number
Product Reviews
Liz Black X, MYLO Earth Review: A Sculptural Piece That’s Surprisingly Versatile
Sex Toy DB, The Essential Hismith Upgrade Just Got Even Better: Lube Launcher 2.0 Review
Sex Work
Miss K Stinger, Double Mistress Judicial Caning Sessions London
Sex Worker Search, Why Can’t Escort Directories Age Verify via Third Party Double Blind ID check?
Oz Bigdownunder, A Duo with Mistress Charlotte. Sissy Virgin’s First Face Fuck
Milady, Exciting Duos Available: Meet Me & Mistress Jessica!
Sandra, Lick it Good
Courtesan Finder, FMTY: Fly Me To You Explained
Erotic Fiction
Schey Place Books, Weighing the odds: Fictional Exposure Explored
Ramone Quides, The Hairband
Simone Francis, The Contract – FemDom Story
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, When the Brain Becomes Erotic: Tantra, Sapiosexuality, and the Body of Consciousness
Tom Rockets, Sex in the Shower: What Water Does to Your Lube
Buzz Vibes, 200 Ways to Keep Sex Interesting? No, Just One: Stay Curious
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Mx Valentina, The Architecture of Submission: A Case Study in PowerDyamics
- The BDSM Art Archive explores Maisons de Flagellation (c.1911), a French, pseudo-academic treatise on the “psychology and techniques of flagellomania”, including detailed illustrations of the furniture and tools of houses of flagellation.
- On Current Affairs, a phone sex operator talks about the particular strain of masochism in right-wing straight men. “Michael felt he needed a politically progressive woman like me to dominate him, since most conservative women were conditioned to subservience by the same forces of respectability he depended upon for self-esteem.”
- From Archive.org:
I’ve only made a few edits to the manuscript since last month. Most of my energy has gone into researching the possibilities of self-publishing.
A Lover’s Pinch was published through the conventional process of finding an agent, submitting the manuscript to the agent, the agent submitting the manuscript to various publishers, and waiting for one of them to accept it. It did earn through its advance, which not all books do, and I still get a small amount of royalties from sales. However, I have some questions about the deal, and if I ever go through a publishing company again, I will do some things differently.
Conversations with other authors who write about similar topics make me wonder, however, if going through a publishing company is even the right path. The Celluloid Dungeon has a niche, controversial topic, and I might have more success promoting it than a publishing company. No matter how much (or little) effort a publisher puts into marketing a title, they still get their cut. Reviewing my royalties statement shows that the portion of total sales of paper copies that come from my direct, person-to-person sales keeps rising. In 2025, 25% of paper sales were through my own efforts.
However, self-publishing Celluloid Dungeon, in a way that meets my standards, will cost. Even if I do all the editing, copy-editing, proofreading, layout and cover design myself, I’d still want an index, and that costs thousands of dollars. I also want it to have a strong visual appeal, and that means paying licensing fees for photos, running at least a few hundred. I’m looking at four figures to do it right.
There’s also the problem of which companies to use. Amazon KDP is the 800 lb gorilla surrounded by 10 lb monkeys, at least in terms of ebooks and online sales. Getting it into brick & mortar stores means going through the IngramSpark system (even if you use another company) and they take their cut. But fighting for shelf-space in retail is no sure thing. There’s also direct sales companies to consider, if this title is best suited to that.

Vikings (2013-21) is a historical drama TV series, broadly based on the life of legendary leader Ragnar Lothbrok. While I’m no expert on this particular period, the series plays pretty loose with history. E.g. the series began in season 1 with a story based on the Lindisfarne raid of 793, but one major plot arc of season 3 is based on the Viking siege of Paris in 845, and characters have only aged a few years.
For this blog’s purposes, we are concerned with a subplot of the siege of Paris arc. The leader of Paris’ defense against the Vikings is Count Odo (played by Owen Roe, loosely based on Odo of France), who chafes under the rule of Emperor Charles. Odo’s lieutenant Roland (Huw Parmenter) sends his sister, Therese (Karen Hassan), to seduce the count. So far, so typical for this kind of show.
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The following contains spoilers for I want your sex (2026), starring Olivia Wilde and Cooper Hoffman, and directed by Gregg Araki.
Elliot Bell is an aimless, unemployed 20-something man. He gets a job as an assistant to an eccentric artist, Erika Tracey, which leads to him being her lover and her submissive.
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Books and Movies
O Miss Pearl, “The Everlasting” by Alix E. Harrow [Femdom Book Review]
History of BDSM, Killing Me Softly (2002): The Celluloid Dungeon
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
The BDSM Store, BDSM Punishment Generator
Hannah McKnight, I Want to be a Crossdresser
Sex & Relationships
Morgan Destera, And I Scream at the Top of My Lungs “What’s Going On?”
Tantric Sexual Healing, Erotic Intelligence: Can Sexual Practice Increase Wisdom?
Femina Viva, Are we all alone? Is life just one big futile exercise for connection?
Product Reviews
Buzz Vibes, Best Masturbators Australia (2026): Our Top Picks for Every Budget
Safe Lust, b-Vibe Rocker Prostate Plug Tested: Rocking the Spot
Liz X, Heavy-Duty Automation: A Review of the Honey Play Box Warrior Masturbator
Girly Juice, Velora Dune banana-shaped vibrator
Oz Bigdownunder, Orgasm Monster Pro 2 Review
Sex Work
Hellga, Fisty Cuffs
Charlotte Cheshire, Luxury Companionship for Every Body: Finding a Disability-Friendly Independent Escort
Mx Valentina, Bespoke Encounters
Ur Little Secret, PSE Meaning: What Is the Porn Star Experience with an Escort?
Sex Worker Search, Fairphone Sex Work Phone Update
Sandra, In Flight Entertainment
Teena Laurent, On Companionship Without Condition
Milady, What’s in My Kinky Tote Bag?
Mila Dall, Music, neuroscience and the link between sexuality and creativity
