
CSI: Crime Scene Investigation series finale “Immortality”
A suicide bombing in a casino brings the gang back together for one last case. Never mind that Willows is now an FBI agent and has a conflict of interest because she owns the casino, and Grissom left law enforcement to become a maritime vigilante.
One of the pieces of debris from the bomb vest is a square of metal marked “LHK”, which Grissom recognizes as the monogram of “Lady Heather Kessler”. (She used her real last name as a pro-domme?)
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CSI: Crime Scene Investigation S05E05 “Swap Meet”, aired October 28, 2004. IMDB
In “Swap Meet”, the CSI franchise checks another sexual subculture off its list: swingers. While not directly related to BDSM, this episode does illustrate how investigative procedurals like CSI handle alternative sexualities.
The episode opens with aerial scenes of Las Vegas intercut with soft-core style shots of a couple making out. Cut to a hetero couple going to a swingers party in a posh gated community, with the soundtrack of “Vertigo” by U2. This being TV, everybody is younger and prettier than they would be in real life. This being CSI, it’s only a matter of time until a dead body turns up. This time, it’s a woman in a fountain, stabbed in the back and drowned.
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Kristina J, Let’s Talk About Touch (and Why Communication Is The Sexiest Thing You Can Do)
Awakening Your Inner Essence, The Secret to Lasting Longer Isn’t Control — It’s Connection
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Book and Movies
Liz Black, Two New Bimbo Releases Are Here – Two Series Completed
History of BDSM, Nine and a Half Weeks (1978)
- Art Vintagique exhibits the Fredi trilogy, a set of 1929 novels about same sex desire, bisexuality, BDSM and fetishism, with Art Deco illustrations by Gaston Smit.
- The Spring 1982 edition of Coevolution Quarterly published an article by Patrick (then “Pat”) Califia about “Feminism and Sadomasochism” (Pg.33-40), republished from Heresies.
- The Authentically Kinky podcast interview bondage model Jewell Marceau about her many careers and her chronic mouth pain from overuse of ball gags.
- The Humanist lays out the new wave of neo-Puritan activity in the USA.
- From Archive.org:
- The English Vice (1978) by Ian Gibson
- The Color of Kink by Ariane Cruz (2016)
- Hardcore Crafts (1976), a photo book about sexually explicit handicrafts
- The History of Flagellation: The Whip as an Instrument of Punishment, Torture, Self-Beatings, Religion and Erotic Stimulation (1946) by Joseph McCabe
- Flagellation & the flagellants : a history of the rod in all countries from the earliest period to the present time (1909) by James Glass Bertram
Dying for Sex S01E06 “Happy Holidays”

After Molly, Niki and Sonya celebrate the one-year anniversary of Molly’s cancer return, she has another dom-sub session with Neighbor Guy. Along the way, Molly gets turned on with him, but her anxiety returns, represented by a vision of a man with a blurry face. She partially opens up to Neighbor Guy about her childhood sexual abuse, and that she’s never had an orgasm with another person. She tells him she wants to try to orgasm with him, and he’s eager to help.
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In S01E05, “My Pet”, Molly continues seeing (and dominating) Neighbor Guy, and starts seeing Pet, a man into puppyplay, complete with costume and collar. However, she hasn’t told either of them about her cancer. She orders Neighbor Guy to finish himself off and goes into the bathroom to finish herself off with a vibrator.
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Nothing had prepared me. Some years back I had read The Story of O [sic], intrigued by the beginning, horrified after a few pages, repulsed long before the end. Sadomasochists in real life were black-leather freaks, amusing and silly in their ridiculous getups. If a friend, a peer, had told me she had herself tied to a table leg at home after a full day’s work at the office– well, it has never come up. God knows I would not have believed it. [Pg.54]
Nine and a Half Weeks by Ingeborg Day under the pseudonym Elizabeth McNeill, published 1978, is the semi-autobiographical account of her brief, obsessive, masochistic affair with an unnamed man. It was eventually adapted into the notorious Nine and a Half Weeks film in 1986, starring Kim Basinger and Mickey Rourke.
I had viewed and read about the film quite a bit before I read the short novel. It differs in several significant points. (For convenience, I will refer to the POV character as Elizabeth and her lover as John, though he is not named in the book.)
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Dying for Sex is a 2025 dramedy series about a woman, Molly, who is diagnosed with terminal cancer, and leaves her husband in search of sexual fulfillment.
In “Topping is a Sacred Skill”, the fourth episode of the first (and apparently only) season, Molly continues her exploration of her sexuality. In between episodes, she attended a BDSM play party and is intrigued by a dominant there known as G.
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- On October 18th, the Leather Archive and Museum in Chicago, IL is hosting a double bill of A Nightmare on Elm Street 2: Freddy’s Revenge (1985) and From Beyond (1986).
- Podcast You Must Remember This goes in-depth on Madonna’s erotic thriller Body of Evidence (1993), along with her SEX photography book and her Erotica album.
- Jack Fritscher wrote a bio of Cynthia Slater, one of the founders of the Society of Janus.
- Darby Valentine has a video on the extreme body modification underground and the man known as Eunuch Maker.
- From Archive.org:
- Captured Vol.1, Iss. 5 (1977) bondage magazine by House of Milan
- Secret magazine No. 5, Dec 1993
- Mach gay military magazine, Vol.3, No.7, 1984
- Slave Piercing magazine, Vol. 2, published 1986 by Spartacus
- The History of Flagellation: The Whip as an Instrument of Punishment, Torture, Self-Beatings, Religion and Erotic Stimulation, by Joseph McCabe, pub. 1946 by Haldeman-Julius
