The History of BDSM

Welcome to Elust 135 –

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #136? Start with the rules, come back November 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Since there were only eight submissions and only two voting judges it doesn’t seem right to have a top three this month. I would like to thank Mrs Fever and Subbee for doing their part.

NOTE from FEVE: I have highlighted my personal favorites in purple.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

• Give Me Your Heart, Make It Real
• In the morning

Body Talk and Sexual Health

• We are not a coterie

Erotic Non-Fiction

• Cum on Command Countdown
• Joys and Monsters

Erotic Fiction

• My Private Life in a Ford Cortina

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

• How does femdom work?

Books and Movies

• iZombie S03E05: The Celluloid Dungeon

Welcome toElust 132-

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Bisexuality, Shame and The Kiss That Never Wa

Can I touch you like that?

I’m Not A Very Good Masturbator

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #133? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ Featured Posts by our Guest Editor ~

Lillith Avir

Sex is great, but…
Free from Section 28

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Books and Movies

Body of Evidence (1992)

Erotic Non-Fiction

Sissy Facefuck
Sextreme Sport – The Ride
Your best teacher is your last mistake

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

What happens in Vegas…
The everyday misogyny you don’t see
Green Eyed Monster

Erotic Fiction

A Second Call
Following Instructions

Thoughts and Advice on Kink & Fetish

Moose Hide

Welcome to Elust 130

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #131? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Communion

Wedding night orgy: new, filthy traditions

Body Love: Q is for Queefing

~ Featured Posts by our Guest Editor Quinn Rhodes (ze/hir) ~

There’s a theme to the pieces I picked for my featured posts, and it’s that they both made me feel valid in my gender identity. I never expected coming out as trans to be easy, but being a vocal genderqueer sex blogger has really not been fun so far. Thank you to all the folks (including e[lust]!) who have stood with the trans and non-binary sex bloggers over the last month, and thank you to the amazing trans writers who inspire me to keep exploring my own gender – and talking about it!

#1 It’s all a bit pants by A to sub B (she/her/they/them)

“Tell me I’ve been a good girl and I’m going to be grinning but tell me I’ve been a good boi and fuuuuccckkk, I’ve melted into a puddle.”

I felt soooo seen by this post. Bee talks about their experience with gender and lace panties and feeling like we need to conform to gender stereotypes. It can be really hard and I’m sorry Bee is finding it all a bit pants, but I’m really glad they’re exploring their gender expression and presentation. 

#2 Queer Names for Your Genitals
by Mx Nillin (they/them)

“One of the most essential parts of reclaiming autonomy over myself as a queer enby was taking back the language used to describe my body.”

As someone who has spent a LOT of time over the last few months thinking about what I want to call my junk, I loved this post. Nillin shares a bunch of words they’ve seen other trans and non binary folks use to refer to their genitals, and I’m now slightly tempted to refer to my dick as my “ominous parts”.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Body Talk and Sexual Health

5 Things to Know About Erotic Modeling Online

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Cougar Lane
All things being equal

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

The Two Sides of Shame in Kink and BDSM
Fantastical BDSM – BDSM: fantasy or reality
Silent Treatment

Erotic Fiction

I want you to fuck me in the arse
Sexual Service
Confession of Lust

Books and Movies

Four Weddings and Funeral
Law & Order Criminal Intent S09E11

Erotic Non Fiction

Love is a banquet on which we feed